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Sacrifice Money for Passion and Other Things

Hey everyone! Let’s cover money sacrifices first and then chat about some other “stuff.”

Money Sacrifice

You know how I was doing that ghostwriting case study for 1 month? I was going to write up a free report about balancing work for others and work for yourself. Well I did fine – I managed to handle it, late even. Late is not going to kill anyone. It might annoy, but it won’t result in imminent death.

I was on the very last project and it turned out the client wanted to expand the project from the remaining 35 pages (which was a technical career topic – something I would have had to pull teeth to stretch anyway into 30ish pages) – to 60 pages. No clue how I would have done that on that topic. It’s one of those that fries my brain.

And I have some other things I’m juggling right now so sometimes, it’s best to refund and move along. Ease stress. I refunded $800 and freed myself up to handle my family affairs and work issues. I feel so relieved!

It’s not always about pushing yourself and killing it. Sometimes it’s about knowing when NOT to. Even if you want or need the money. Heck, I can’t wipe my butt with 8 $100 bills yet, can you? But I still knew it was better to give it back and be more productive on things I’m passionate about rather than get bogged down in a project I’m unhappy with.  And I sat there looking at the $800 in “Send Money” in PayPal contemplating, but my happiness is paramount to everything else now.

I’m still going to whip up my report in the near future. I guess it’s odd because I don’t teach people to do the impossible. I embrace imperfection – and that confuses some people. The client was so sweet, thanked me for the work on the other two projects I did complete, and he can now find someone more suitable to the last one.

Staying Healthy!

A lot of you sweethearts always inquire about my health – not just when I’m sick, but when I’m well. I know it’s my weight that concerns you. I just scheduled my physical for a couple of weeks from now – so excited because it’s been almost a full year since I ate meat of any kind, so I’m looking forward to seeing how my numbers have changed.

They were healthy before so I can’t imagine what no fried chicken or steak or fish is going to reflect! Plus, I’ve gone down in weight without trying about 8-10 pounds in less than a year, so that’s a good thing! I still drink Cokes, eat oreos, etc. But my meals are also filled with fruit and vegetables – WIDE ranges of them, too.

And I don’t just eat Oreos - LOL! – Like this morning, I had a big glass of orange juice and a plate of raw oatmeal. I like to just snack on it. Now that I gave up dieting, I find I love good foods and don’t resent them and never feel like I have to have bad ones, either because they’re there – without guilt, so there’s no rush.

Anyway – thanks for all the advice via email about tips on health and weight loss, etc. I’m doing well – almost rid of that bronchial plague I recently caught w/my kids but now the hubby’s got something :(

Branding Balls - Do You Have Them?

I read something funny in this weekend’s paper. It was an interview of Simon Cowell (the American Idol/X Factor guy). They were asking him, now that X Factor is coming to America, if he thinks or wants it to dominate American Idol. And he wisely said, “You don’t enter something for the silver medal; you do it because you want to be No. 1.”

Now we all know how successful he is.

Are you feeling this way about your niche? Because if you’re joining this branding challenge, I want you to really be in it to win it. I don’t want you to come into this satisfied with being ONE of the teachers/go to people in your niche. Really, I want you to plan for the Super Bowl ring or why even bother?

It’s going to be really uncomfortable. It’s going to make you nervous. I don’t care. I’m here to support you and so are the others here, so you’d better be willing to go that extra mile and brand as the best!

Alrighty I’m off to the store – I’m in a baking fall kinda mood. Sounds like a 7-layer dip night to me!

Tiff ;)

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46 Responses to “Sacrifice Money for Passion and Other Things”

  • Hi Tiff,

    Yep, I am in it to be No.1
    You make a good point there. We all need confidence and you have to have faith in yourself to go for the top spot. I’m going to love being in the branding group. Together we can support each other and reach the top.

    So good that you are well again. And those numbers at the doctor’s will be awesome :)

    Debbie

  • Sam says:

    Tiffany:
    I really relate to your post today. I have been is much the same situation about doing some work for someone that was really just too much for me to handle. It was making me feel so bad that I decided to stop and to not ever do this again. Putting myself in this position was not worth it. If you don’t enjoy doing something, why do it. Right. I am glad to hear you are feeling better also. Take Care,

  • Sharon says:

    I just did the same…money sacrifice that is; though in my case it’s $80 and the client is not usually sweet, but let’s hope. I had a good reason…first the topic was really technical but beyond that, I began early labor a couple of days ago so I can’t do much writing.

    Glad you and the kids are all better and I hope hubby gets better soon. Maybe you can share some of YOUR tips for losing weight? I’ll need them after the baby is born :)

    As for branding balls…I’m growing ‘em is all I can say.

    Have a great week!

    Sharon

  • Shazi says:

    Hey Tiff,

    It has been quite a bit since I posted here. I am reading up all the posts and comments but just didn’t feeling like contributing…one of those ‘blah’ periods of mine.

    I REALLY wanted to you how you’re doing…but you answered that detail in your post….lol

    I am sorry about your hubby picking up that bug. Sometimes these viral/bacterial thingies are a nuisance to get rid of!

    I have been meaning to say THANK YOU….for all that you have done.

    So here it is – a BIG, heartfelt THANK YOU!!!

    Love u grl

    Shazi

  • Debra Conrad says:

    Bring It Tiff – Branding Balls

  • I felt just like you recently with a client who wanted something more than I felt confident in doing.I knew I would have to research how to do it on top of an already overflowing diary. Plus he was offering me more money for something that I found unethical. I could have done with the extra money but didn’t feel comfortable with what he was suggesting! I felt so relieved after I told him I couldn’t accommodate his request.
    Sometimes you have to go with your gut instinct, even if it means turning work away.
    Good luck with the medical :)

  • Kecia says:

    I am about to turn away a potential project simply because I don’t have the time to do it. It would be pulling be away from current clients as well as my PLR store, and those are things I do not want to sacrifice. I find it difficult to write the emails that decline a project…it’s definitely the worst part of ghostwriting for me.

    Good luck at your physical. It sounds like you have nothing to worry about if you’ve given up some of the less healthy foods. I agree you should share your personal tips on weight loss. I’m still battling some pregnancy weight – and my son is turning one tomorrow!

  • Dianne says:

    Hi Tiff,

    I couldn’t agree with you more today on the working for someone situation.

    I started working for this group on August 11 via eLance and it was the biggest Chinese fire drill from the get-go. They had brought on someone else back in July (when they told me they were going to hire me), she made a big mess out of all the articles and press releases which needed to be produced and I had hardly any time to try and fix it before I left for vacation in two weeks. Aaagghhh!! Plus, the job kept continually changing from one day to the next when I was only hired to do “X.”

    Last Thursday my husband said “Just Quit” after he walked in on me firing off an email to them via eLance. I had received instructions overnight of 3 BIG projects they needed by 11am because the “Developers” were waiting. Nope, nope, nope. And they money stunk to boot.

    Peace of mind regained! Now I am ramping up MY own stuff and (as you know) trying to find a mentor/coach.

    If it is something making you pull your hair out, run Forrest run!! LOL!

    Dianne

    P.S. Can hardly wait for the branding challenge. I am pumped!

  • Ruth says:

    About the giving up money thing… I have found when I deliberated over it for ages in the past, I felt like I shouldn’t do it. yet when you do force yourself to give it up, cancel the order, you suddenly feel a weight off your shoulders and feel it was right all along. It’s just hard to know beforehand sometimes.

    I didn’t realise it was almost a year since you went veggie – hasn’t that time gone fast?! I am glad it’s had a positive effect for you! I have been veggie for nearly 2 years now though haven’t noticed too much difference either way, I am going through a phase right now where I am always craving carbs :/ not good!

  • Hi Tiff,
    Glad to hear you are feeling better. As you mentioned, it is important to figure out and understand what your limitations are and then to be OK with it. What is the use of killing yourself doing something you don’t like. Life is too damn short.

    What is a 7 layer dip? Is it an American thing? Whatever it is, enjoy.

    Tiptopcat :)

  • Edie says:

    That was smart of you to let that assignment go. I’m glad he was so sweet about it, that made it easier for you.

    Sounds like this branding challenge is going to be a stretch for me, but a much needed one. I usually just kind of hang back and follow the crowd. Hmmmm. Sounds like I’m going to have to change my strategy.

    I’m reading the branding book from Amazon and so far it sounds pretty interesting. Looking forward (I think)to the challenge. :)

  • Val says:

    Hi Tiffany – Are we already supposed to have a niche for this branding challenge?

  • Mel says:

    Hi Miss Tiffany,
    Sacrificing the money, this is a perfect example of why I have been following you for the last year or so. I like how you may not know it all, but accept that as fact, and do your level best to learn what you don’t and share it with us all here. We, your loyal followers, are all the better for it.

    Please stay healthy, but “raw oatmeal”? There has to be a better way.

    Anyway, I’m looking forward to the branding, just hope that I can get my family moved and the ‘net set up in time to stay up with you.

    Take care,
    Mel

  • Alice Coaxum says:

    I think you made a wise choice giving back the $800, which will free up your time to take care of other obligations.

    It has been almost a month for me not having any meat. I do eat eggs and broth and have dropped some weight. Congrats on it being almost a year! I can’t wait until I can say that. I’ll probably be a lot slimmmer.

    I enjoy snack foods when I want them but predominantly eat healthy. I eat more veggies than I ever have in my life and I always ate veggies. I started watching my portions in July and then in August I stopped eating meat. I have lost 20lbs since July but the crazy part is that the bulk of the loss is since I gave up meat. 20 lbs down 200 to go!

    I think eating healthier will be good for me in general. I want off of some of my heart meds and want to improve my heart failure. I actually feel better with a little more energy since I gave up meat and my acid reflux isn’t as bad.

    I’m scared already and the challenge hasn’t even begun. I’m in it to win it so I will just have to deal with the uncomfortable parts.

    • Tiffany says:

      Yep meat adds a lot of calories.

    • Congratulations on the weight loss, Alice. I know how hard it is to lose the weight. I, too, have started adding a lot of vegetables and fruit to my diet, but it was because of my diverticulitus not my weight. I haven’t given up on meat altogether yet. Working on that.

      Keep up the weight loss. I will be your cheerleader.

  • I agree. I actually stopped writing for several years because it had gotten so stressful, I had major burn out. When I started back a few years ago I only took a few clients and projects–so it’d be fun again and not feel like work.

    Sometimes I still feel stuck in that part-time attitude, but nothing is worth my peace (or frame) of mind. I’d rather eat dirt. <—movie reference. :)

    You have to run your business, you can't let it run you.

    Branding Balls – I like that.

    You know, there is something so "not right" about a Texan vegetarian. LOL. :)

  • Debra says:

    Perfect timing Tiff…I just talked to my Granddaughter today and she wants to be the Tangled Princess for Halloween. I love to sew, but don’t have the time because of my internet business so….today I decided it’s more important to make the time to do something I love for someone I love than making another sale today. Thanks!

  • Rach72 says:

    ….. and here I was getting all guilty for the feeling of relief that I get every-time a client disappears after getting my quote for doing their work!

  • Gaynor says:

    Raw oats are yummy but add a little cocoa powder and a little skimmed milk – really yummy!

    I find I miss chocolate so this gives me my ‘chocolate fix! No fat!

    Simon says to aim for number 1 – well, I can’t sing so I’m yelling – YES NUMBER 1! LOL

    Good luck with your medical.

    Gaynor

  • Hi Tiffany – love love love reading your blog. I am, however, very nervous about the branding challenge. I’m signed up though! :)

  • Ohh Tiff,

    I’m gonna have to find a lot of testosterone over the next couple of weeks.

    My niche, (IMHO) is a big one. Even though I’ve had Celiac Disease since 1987, I’m late to the party for online info. So becoming #1 is going to be a challenge in its self. Plus I’m not a camera kinda gal. I don’t like the way I look or sound on camera.

    That being said I’m ready to try.

    Glad you’re feeling better. My 4 yr old granddaughter started preschool Sept. 2nd. After 2 weeks she’s got respiratory something, shared it with her 1 yr old sister, and since I babysit both of them, (in my “spare” time), also shared it with me. I’m pretty much feeling like crap. Gotta love kids and school. :(

  • Quick question. You may have mentioned it, but I can’t find it any where.

    For the 30 day branding challenge, will there be a private area where we can all talk and share ideas?

    Thanks!

  • Tamsin says:

    Oh No !! You mean I gotta come out from behind my Momma’s skirt ?!?!?! Uncomfortable is an understatement :) but I will be there at the start line …….

  • You are right that you sometimes have to give up the money for your own piece of mind. If you feel very uncomfortable about a job, you won’t do as well with it. Thank you for reminding us about that.

    Not ready to give up my meat yet. I am working on it though as I need to for my health.

    As some of the others said, I am shaking in my cowboy boots but will be there for the branding.

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