Summer Business Overhaul Effective Now
Hi everyone! I’m very excited. Since I’ve been using my Mind Maps and seeing what I really have juggling up in the air, I’m realizing what I need my life (business and personal) to evolve into – not just for profitability, but for maximum enjoyment. Because that’s what it’s all about, right? Enjoying our lives! Our careers!
So…for a LONG LONG time I have always told y’all what business models I’m pursuing, how it’s going with all of them, and how I get things done. I work from 6 AM until I go to bed around 10 PM, off and on allllllllllllllllllllllllllll day and night. Up until now, that has been PERFECT for me.
I stopped when I wanted to. I might do 5 minutes here and 5 minutes there in between doing a load of dishes, for example. My income grew $10,000 last year. All great stuff!
However…
I’m not fulfilled yet.
See this little goldfish leaping out of his small, but comfortable fishbowl? That’s me. I’m leaping out of the water into a bigger fishbowl because I know it’s cozier and more roomy. It’s scary, but it’s a change that’s right for me.
I’m not throwing away any of my current business models, don’t worry. They’re making me money. So I want to continue doing what works. However, something’s about to change my life…a new schedule with ME worked into it! Here are the things I want worked into my equation – and how it’ll work.
A New Noon Limit
“Quittin’ time at Tara” is now 12 noon on the dot. I get up at 6 AM during school and 8 AM on weekends and during the summer. I have an hour round trip in the morning for carpool during school.
Instead of flitting around all day putting in tidbits here and there, I want to stop my workday at noon, period. I will not be doing the same kind of flitting, though. My mind maps have really enabled me to zero in one what needs to get done exactly and since it’s on-going, I don’t have to stop each day and figure out what my next move is. It’s all already in my mind map.
I also don’t like feeling like I’m working from sun up until my head hits the pillow. It kind of makes me feel resentful at times, like I work ALL the time, even though there are moments in between when I don’t. I have guilt if I sit down to relax and don’t have my email on in front of me. If I watch a TV show, I feel like I ought to just glance as I work on business stuff.
In other words, I have no true relaxation time.
Now noon might seem really early to y’all, but not for me. I can write 5 pages an hour. So now, here’s how my new schedule will go:
6 AM – Wake up, brew coffee, get kids ready while checking stats and emails.
7-8 – carpool
8-10 – Ghostwriting to wrap up 50 page projects – I am SO behind. I got into researching and organizing and wasn’t as productive with output, my mind map shows me.
10-11 – PLR creation and promotion
11-12 – work on other site or project of choice, including making a blog post, emailing out, etc.
Get Up N Dance
Okay so after analysis and a chat with my old nutritionist, she agreed that the Dance Central (which I love and have so much fun doing) would be a great form of exercise for me to increase my physical stamina. I don’t like being out of breath. That is my ONLY goal here, sorry – it’s not weight loss.
If I lose, great! Who doesn’t wish for a smaller butt? But if my two butt cheeks never shed an inch, I love them just the same. Just not fond of how I had a hard time walking up 4 flights of stairs on the field trip. I did it and kept up, but I had to hide being so out of breath because it was humiliating. I want LUNG CAPACITY, people!
So from 12-1 I will be dancing to Dance Central 2. Songs include Baby Got Back (perfect!), Humpty Dance, Nothin on You and many more. Plus, I buy songs I like to add to it. Let your imaginations run wild – there’s gonna be a whole lotta shakin going on here in Texas!
Tapping Into My Home and Garden Leadership Role
Okay this is weird. I used to always be a slob, and Lord knows I still am to many degrees. But when I started cleaning as part of the 5 Love Languages for my husband (who appreciates that sort of stuff), I got to where I enjoy having a clean kitchen. It doesn’t mean I enjoy cleaning, but I do like when it’s all done.
I have that Home Shopping Addicts site – and I want to personalize it a lot more with real insight. I want to do stupid things like make a before and after picture of my junk drawer, now using a drawer organizer. I want to do home improvement projects and blog about them.
Many of you know I live in my childhood home. It’s VERY sentimental to me. But my dad let it get run down inside and out, and when we first moved in, we were new parents, focusing on getting jobs and paying bills. So now that we’re making some money, I want to put a little aside for home projects – the majority going to tuition and living expenses.
So part of my day will be spent working on tidying up the house and then doing some sort of fixer upper project! I’m looking forward to the changes. I’m looking forward to helping lead people from a real “put into action” perspective.
Errands
I’m always feeling so tired rushing around to fit my errands in. Well when the time comes to pick up the kids, either right before or after I get them is when I’ll tackle these. Not off and on all day. That includes grocery shopping, post office, etc.
Fiction Writing
Some of you know this is my dream. Always has been. However, I feel I suck at it. I can’t write my way out of a paper bag when it comes to dialogue or character development. Please don’t suggest any resources – I’ve read dozens upon dozens and taken distance courses with personal help, etc. All of them were things I failed at.
I haven’t tried my hand at this in about 2 or 3 years now. However, I don’t give up on my dreams. I want this to be an “outside of work” relaxation period for me. Not something I do to try to make money at. If I wind up making money, fine. But that’s not my goal right now. I just need to feel like I grasp the method of idea choice, character evolution and storytelling.
My Mom, who is awesome at fiction (she’s had agents, etc.), said that she would love to help me through this. Beforehand, she always was proud of my attempts. But she understands that I don’t need any accolades. I need someone to tell me when my writing sucks and why, so I can learn.
So this journey starts tomorrow.
What’s my kind of fiction? Everyday life. Stuff like Jodi Picoult. I like being inside the minds of characters who I can relate to if even on some tiny little level – even if nothing else is relevant to me.
I don’t need some oddball twist or shocking moment. Just entering the characters’ lives and minds is what I enjoy.
Down Time
I just learned about this new fangled thing called down time. It means you don’t do anything. GASP! Nothing? No computer staring at me from the couch? Nope. No cleaning up after people? Nah. No nothing. Just relaxing. Playing with my kids, holding them, making them dinner, watching my favorite shows or taking a bubble bath.
Nothing at all…but at the same time it’s everything, isn’t it?
I’m not one for making a start date. It starts when I wake up first thing in the morning. I feel like I am gaining so much clarity this week – mind maps and discussions with those closest to me (Craig, my sister, my Mom, and even my nutritionist who understands my mentality about eating/moving and is the only one who does).
I feel so…FREE!
Better get some sleep because tomorrow I’ll be hitting it hard, uninterrupted until noon.
Tiff
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Miss Tiffany,
I, for one, applaud you for the fact that your are planning to take time to enjoy the lifestyle that you have worked your tail off to create.
However, and I am going to play devils advocate here, it amazes me that mind-mapping on-line gave you such clarity. In this blog’s archives, there are posts describing how you kept everything organized for your different projects/business in 5-subject spiral notebooks. Isn’t that the same thing as what you are doing with the mind maps? Just an observation, not a judgement.
Bottom line is that you and your family deserve the “down time” you are planning to take. You earn it everyday.
Keep inspiring!
Thanks,
Mel
They were similar, Barney but different in that once it’s written down in pen in my spiral, it’s not something I can edit. I’d have to redo the entire page. Plus, I was juggling 4-5 spirals with chapters in each one. No way to “get a glimpse” of my business needs. It was spread over book after book and page after page.
With the online version, I can finally see a big picture AND zoom in on an individual process and edit on the fly, add, delete, etc.
I won’t even tell you how torn up my spirals got and how often my spirals went missing, either. LOL!
But even in those spirals there was no time off of work. It sucked.
We won’t talk about how many spirals I have either. Or how I can’t find the right one when I need it. LOL.
I think we’ve been on a similar wavelength this week. I haven’t been mind mapping, but doing a lot of thinking about ALL the things I want to do and not having the energy to do them.
I do best if I stop work at noon. I am way more productive. If I tell myself, “Oh I can get to that later.” I don’t get to it. So, I’ve been thinking about what all I need to do before noon. I will probably start planning it out tomorrow.
Good luck with yours!
Gee, I’m looking forward to when that new down time thing reaches Australia. I’d like to try it. I currently work from whatever time I get up until hubby gets home. Usually this is around 6pm but if he’s late, I’ll still be on the laptop at 7.30pm, mainly because I absolutely love what I’m doing and don’t consider it ‘work’.
Tiff with your not being able to climb stairs/getting out of breath so easily, ask your doctor to test you for COPD (Chronic Obstructive Pulmonary Disease). It’s a simple test, you just have to breathe into a tube that measures your lung capacity. I’ve had it for years and just use an inhaler once a day. It’s really made a difference.
It’s about time you started adding ‘you’ into the mix. You’ve more than earned it. Time to stop and smell the roses – literally! Enjoy.
They did and my oxygen level was actually good but this is about no cardio ever and tins if extra weight lol. Sorry you got that diagnosis
Wow! I can hear the excitement and energy in your voice. This is a glowing report for mind maps.
Kudos to you for your new resolve. I definitely will give the mind mapping a shot. Maybe I’ll get revved up too! Looking forward to it. lol
Thanks for sharing Tiffany!
My absolutely favourite blog post so far! I have always wondered how you did manage to do SO MUCH, now I understand! Working from 6 am till 10..waoow! But yes, that probably needs changing, as you say! It has been proven that you can get much more effective by working a shorter period than a llloonng day! I love your way of thinking and your pragmatic approach to things! Excellent! I have been kind of stuck in a rut for a couple of weeks, also I have plenty to do- I have not been that effective! Hey, I woke up at 6.30 this morning and it is close to 8.45…and surfing the net in my bed? What the h?? I have a lot on my plate at the moment and I really think I could do with mind-mapping too… I have got so many projects going around that I don’t know how to prioritize them so some clarity is NEEDED! Gotta get started with that mind-mapping thing…once I manage to get myself off the bed! I think I’ll install some kind of system to VIOLENTLY THROW ME OUT OF THE BED..hahhaa! Enough talking now! Well done, such a good, inspiring post!!! My favourite, definitely! Have a sucessful day!! Yoan ( oh, still waiting for that gravatar thingy, doesn’t seem to work..will try again..bah!! ::)
This sounds great to me! Although you obviously love your work, being able to NOT do it and not feel guilty is something a lot of us need to learn. I have trouble with this too, but travelling has made me a bit better because there’s so much other stuff to do.
I once experimented ending my work day at 12 for about a month. Although I let it slip, I can say it was GREAT! I didn’t feel like I got less done, I felt it pushed me more so I finished by that time. And after that time, I was so creative. I sometimes relaxed but sometimes wrote personal stuff and that was a great feeling. When I write all day for the internet sometimes it’s hard to get creative. Could help with your fiction!
I put my comment under the wrong post- feel free to delete!
Just wanted to say that I am glad you are taking time for yourself. We appreciate all you do!
If there is any that can follow through on this its you. Have you shared your new schedule with your family?
For me juggling my online activities, day job, weight loss/workout program and family can be frustrating at times. But its easier when I let my family know in advance what my plans for the week. That helps keep me on track, and it also let them know what to expect from me.
It is always hard trying to find balance between your online work and quality time with your family. Having a predefine schedule tends to help.
Sort of, with my Mom and kids – not with my husband. He’s more of a doer than me and i don’t want any judgment. LOL!
Good for you Tiff, enjoy. Just don’t let Honey Badger go to sleep.
never! lol
I think there is a WSO on the WF for aspiring fiction writers………..just joking.
Good for you. I messed up my first mind map royally so I have to start over or do a lot of editing. So, if you have to take this tutorial down, please put it where I can find it..lol
Seriously, if you don’t take care of yourself you won’t be in a position to help anyone else. What you’re doing is a good thing.
I do have COPD so I have to pace myself already. I hate it when I get a new idea and can’t run with it. Such is life. You go, girl.
Good for you, Tiff. It’s important to take care of yourself, especially your health and mental well-being. And besides, you’ll get way more done in few hours than most.
BTW, thanks for talking about the mind mapping. I forgot I used a program back in my corporate daze! Pulled it out and started using it again. I think it’s going to help with everything from organization to new projects.
I commend you for making this commitment for yourself and your family. I am trying to wrap my mind around how 10 hours of work time can be eliminated – without a sacrifice or cut somewhere. Life happens, time slots get extended, sometimes our best efforts at a narrowed down time doesn’t work. Not being negative here. Trying to make reason with it. I can say that during our work schedules we can waste our times, rechecking things, doing extra unnecessary things that draw more time. I find it’s great to organize time slots, to make the time you work more accomplished.
Hey Cheryl! I’ll make a blog post about it today.
Hi Tiff!
As always a great post with lots of good take-away. I have felt similarly – like all my potential down time gets turned into work time. I kind of have to do that at this point because I homeschool my kids so I don’t have blocks of time to work during the week.
In fact, I’m at the library right now because it’s the only time I can block out. My loving husband does something fun with the girls on Saturdays and we do something fun as a family in the evenings. I also go to the library on Monday nights.
My husband and I worked this out together because we figured that if I had a part time job I would likely work evenings and weekends. So, we just look at these blocks of time as me “going to work.”
The hard part is that there is always more to be done no matter how much time I have. I need to learn how to intentionally choose to spend those non-work moments enjoying my husband, our kids, and our life together. It’s hard. I get distrated with ideas and stuff I want to do in my business.
Please share with us how your transition goes, the hurdles you face and how you overcome them. I’m sure lots of us will benefit from your journey.
Thanks for sharing!
I sure will Tiff! I loved homeschooling when I did it
Oops! Read the next post before this and I suggested a possible reference. LOL!
Sounds like a plan and “knowing” you I’m sure you will be flexible when necessary.
Your new schedule is just in time as school is getting out and summer is quickly arriving – the pool awaits as well, I’m sure. The dancing sounds great too. Looks like you are going to have more fun in your life and that always helps bring greater happiness.
Have a great summer!
LOL No worries. I know it’s all meant from the heart!
You go gal!!
I gave that downtime stuff a shot back in 2002 I believe. I started with 5 minutes of sitting down doing nothing…then spent the last 2 or 3 of that 5 trying to justify to my son why I wasn’t still sitting as he laughed his butt off at me.
Work’s finally pushed me into a “have to” do nothing situation so I see that as a wake-up call. I’ve pushed so hard at the damn job that it’s now interfering with my being able to do small things like dishes, laundry, or writing (thank God for Dragon right?!)
The dancing I love. That’s one exercise plan that should never have you bored. My son and I, before my 20 hours work days, used to go to the local putt-putt place cause they have 2 DDR machines. We’d spend a solid 45 minutes to 60 minutes on them just working our butts off and laughing (of course he was laughing AT me more than WITH me sometimes but he’s always loved that I don’t care what people say or how they look at me.
I’ve always told him…people don’t look at you cause they think your a dufus doing silly things, they stare because they’re wishing they had the guts to be that goofy and actually enjoy their life.
Good luck with the cardio. I know that your weight has no bearing on whether you have good lung capacity. There’s a lot of folks out there who are bigger than you that are VERY healthy from a cardio standpoint!!
And if you stay on this path, you not only will get the pool you want, but you’ll have more time to lounge around it without the guilt!!
I try telling my kids that too! LOL! My nutritionist, who is a tiny little thing, says she’s out of breath the same way – it’s all about whether or not you’ve been active. So I hope it works!
Hey Tiff! This is off topic but I wanted to buy a domain through your affiliate link but your links for godaddy and hostgator don’t work on this link. http://www.tiffanydow.com/blog/day-1-high-performance-challenge/
I would have emailed you but I thought commenting might get to you faster. Also, the godaddy page shows that you can buy a domain for 10 years or something. Does that mean you just pay the $12 or whatever it was and there’s no yearly renewal fee or what? I’m confused. Thanks again.
Emailed you
It’s at the top of my blog under Faves. The 10 year domain will probably bill you for 10 years all at once.